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ADOPTION

 

YY028

Beyond Good Intentions by

Cheri Register

 

 

Beyond Good Intentions is a book of essays about the joys and risks of raising children adopted internationally.  Cheri Register examines ten pitfalls that well-meaning parents like herself can easily slip into:

--  Wiping Away Our Children's Past
--  Hovering Over Our "Troubled" Children
--  Holding the Lid on Sorrow and Anger         
--  Parenting on the Defensive
--  Believing Race Doesn't Matter
--  Keeping Our Children Exotic
--  Raising Our Children in Isolation
--  Judging Our Country Superior
--  Believing Adoption Saves Souls
--  Appropriating Our Children's Heritage   

Each essay opens with an exaggerated version—a caricature—of something an adoptive parent might say.  The caricature is used to prompt a fresh, intense look at practices so familiar they are seldom questioned, even though they may not serve the children’s and the family’s best interests.  Register urges readers to bring their own experiences to bear in a candid conversation about internationally adoptive family life.   

 

Book

$18.95

SALE

$9.95

OX017 The Handbook of International Adoption Medicine: A Guide for Physicians, Parents and Providers by Laurie C. Miller, M.D. The Handbook of International Adoption Medicine presents an overview of the medical and developmental issues affecting internationally adopted children, offering guidelines for families and physicians before, during and after adoption. Laurie Miller has comprehensively researched these topics and also draws from over fifteen years of experience in international adoption and orphanages throughout the world. This book shows how to advise families prior to an int'l adoption, how to perform an effective initial screening assessment of the newly arrived child, how to manage common behavior problems, and how to recognize and manage developmental and more long term problems as they emerge. Sections cover such subjects as the risks of prenatal exposures, growth and developmental delays, infectious diseases, and other medical conditions such as toxic exposures, uncertain age, and precocious puberty. This information has never been available in one place, making the book an invaluable resource for families and professionals in the field if int'l adoption.  Book paper

$45.00

SALE $9.95

CASE003

 

Beneath the Mask- Understanding Adopted Teens by by Debbie Riley & John Meeks Help a teen discover the person within...help a family become a strong family with this new book written by C.A.S.E. Executive Director, Debbie Riley, M.S. with John Meeks, M.D. Therapists and Clinicians will discover: a broad knowledge base on adoption; a step-by-step assessment process; clinical intervention strategies; a wealth of case histories; treatment resources and therapy tools; writing & art therapy samples. Parents will discover: the 6 most common adoption "stuck-spots;" a deeper understanding of the complexities of adoption - identity, abandonment, grief and loss, relinquishment issues - and how they affect personal and family development; the quest for identity through the eyes of the adopted teen; how therapy may help the adoptive family learn and grow together. Book $19.95
AA001  Somewhere in China A Mother Remembers- A Story for Adoptive Parents and their Chinese Children

 

by Anita M Andrew

Somewhere in China A Mother Remembers offers an honest yet comforting way for an adoptive parent to talk with a child about her birth mother in China. The mother in this story represents a composite portrait of the many women from many parts of China who have made the ultimate sacrifice for the children they love. The book tells of one Chinese birth mother who clearly loved her child, protected her, and gave her the chance for a better life.

Anita Andrew is a China specialist and the parent of two daughters adopted from China. Her book includes a "A Note for Parents" which explains essential background information about the story and presents a brief discussion of the issues concerning infant abandonment in China.

This book is sold through this website for The Foundation for Chinese Orphanages. All proceeds go to FCO. www.thefco.org
Book paper $9.00
EMK001

 

 

We See the Moon  

by Carrie Kitze

We See the Moon opens the adoption dialog at an early age by allowing the questions in your child’s heart to be asked and discussed creating the foundation for conversations to come. This is a story written from the child's perspective, asking the questions that dwell in their hearts about their birthparents. . . What do you look like? Where are you now? Do you think of me? It will help children use the moon as a private tool to connect with a family that is always with them in their hearts.  Illustrated with  Jinshan Peasant Paintings which are created by Chinese peasants working in Jinshan County near Shanghai, China. The use of bright colors and limited use of perspective gives these paintings a primitive, childlike quality. A portion of the proceeds from this book help children remaining in orphanages around the world. This book is sold through this website for The Foundation for Chinese Orphanages. All proceeds go to FCO. www.thefco.org

 

 

Book

$16.95
ASA001  Families Are Forever 

by Craig Shemin & Deb Capone

 

A family's particular origin is only the start of what being "a family" means. In this heartwarming tale of family love and beginnings, Rain meets Bo and her new "forever" Mom and they become a brand new family. There are many kinds of families, but all families are forever. It's as Simple as That. Great for single Mom families. Ages 2-8.  Book  $16.95
HH007 Families Are Different 

by Nina Pellagrini

Nino and her sister, both adopted from Korea, are told by their mother that "there are different kinds of families, glued together with a special kind of glue called love." Book $16.95

WB001

How I Was Adopted  

by Joanna Cole

Samantha tells the story of her loving adoption, and encourages readers to share their story. Not a “problem” book, this is an excellent story with a foreword for family discussion. Ages 2-7.

Book paper

$6.95

VHP001

Over the Moon- An Adoption Tale  

by Karen Katz

Bright, beautiful folk art illustrations set the tone for this book depicting a man & a woman dreaming of their soon to be born adopted daughter, receiving news of her birth, then flying to a faraway land where they meet their child. Ages 3-8

Book paper

$6.95

       

 

AW017

 

The Best Single Mom in the World: How I Was Adopted 

by Mary Zisk

"My Mom & I love to tell the story of how we became a family. Before I was born, my Mom lived alone in our house... but something was missing-me!" Ages 3-8. Book was $14.95 SALE $9.95
         
         

AW002

A Koala for Katie 

by Jonathan London

Adopted Katie adopts a toy koala to love and keep safe. A simple message of love & belonging.  Ages 2-7.

Book paper

$5.95

PUT001

A Mother for Choco 

by Keiko Kasza

A little bird searches for a mother & discovers that love & care not physical resemblance is what makes a family Ages 2-8.

Book paper/$5.95

board book/$6.95

 

LB001

Happy Adoption Day  

by John McCutcheon

Colorful book showing the joy and love as a family marks each year with an Adoption Day celebration. Ages 3-9.

Book paper

$6.95

         
         
BR1 The Secret of the Bubble, Orphan Angels Book #1

by Bob Russo

Four young friends, all adopted, find out they have something else in common, an extra guardian angel to help them when they are sad or in trouble. Nice beginning reader book for your child. Ages 6-9. Book paper $5.99
         
RH028 How it Feels to be Adopted  

by Jill Krementz

In this wonderfully straightforward account of what it means to children to be adopted, 19 boys and girls, from ages 8 to 16, and from every social background, confide their feelings about this crucial fact of their lives. Ages 8 & up. Book paper $15.00
PER020 The Mulberry Bird: An Adoption Story 

by Ann Brodzinsky

A Mother bird has no mate and realizes she can not care for her baby bird. The wise old owl suggests she find a family to love and care for her child. At first she resists, but finally allows the owl to carry the baby to a chosen couple. After checking to make sure her child is safe & loved she flies away forever. The baby is told of his first mother's love and care. This revision has beautiful watercolors. Ages 5-10.  Book $15.95

SALE $9.95

VHP009  The Waiting Child, How the Faith and Love of One Orphan Saved the Life of Another 

by Cindy Champnella

The inspiring true story of a four-year old Chinese orphan who convinces her adoptive American family to return to China to rescue the little boy she couldn't forget. This book is a powerful page turner, I could not put it down until I found out what happened to Jaclyn's "baby." Adult Book paper

 

$13.95
VHP010 Dim Sum, Bagels and Grits- A Sourcebook for Multicultural Families 

by Myra Alperson

A guide for adoptive parents and parents-to-be on the journey towards creating a family that represents more than one culture. Included are the importance of balancing birth culture and adoptive culture within the family, finding a community where your children see other kids like them, facing and addressing anti-ethnic and anti-adoption prejudices. Adult.   Book paper $14.00
 EMK009 Adoption Parenting- Creating a Toolbox, Building Connections by Jean MacLeod and Sheena Macrae An invaluable resource for adoptive parents. The editors have so much experience and wisdom to share, this is a must have book. Adult. Book paper

$29.95

         
HC017 Raising Adopted Children  

by Lois  Melina

Practical, reassuring advice for every adoptive parent. Revised & updated in 1998. Book paper $13.00  **SALE $6.99**

HC003

Making Sense of Adoption 

by Lois Meliina

A parent’s guide to when, what & how to tell at each stage of development Adult.

Book paper

$13.00

**SALE $6.99**

PP021 Adoption is a Family Affair! What Relatives and Friends Must Know 

by Patricia Johnson

A child is coming! Whether you approve or not, its time to get with the program. A book to answer all the adoption questions of your family and friends. Adult. Book paper $13.95
FAIR001  Adoption and the Schools, Resources for Parents and Teachers 

from FAIR

From requests for baby pictures to the ubiquitous Family Tree assignment adopted children and their families face challenges and embarrassment in the classroom. FAIR (Families Adopting in Response) now offers help for parents and teachers. This is a complete guide to understanding the dilemmas faced by adopted children in the school setting. It offers insights into the experiences of young people who are faced with assignments, activities and occasions which make participation difficult or painful simply because of the way they joined their family. Suggestions for expanding assignments, including adoption in every day classroom activities, and honoring differences in children and families are included. From pre-school through high school, adopted children’s understanding of adoption and the way it is perceived by teachers and classmates shapes their concept of who they are in the world.

The book is written to help parents and teachers increase adoption awareness and sensitivity in the school community. Teachers will be able to explore both the impact of adoption on the children they teach and their own influence on the way the adopted child experiences school. Parents will learn more about the impact of adoption on their children’s education and how to educate the educators about adoption.

Contributors include experienced parents, professionals, and the students themselves. Their drawings, poems and stories enliven the material and remind us that teaching and parenting is, after all, about the children. Adult

Book paper $24.95
PP010 

 

Attaching in Adoption 

by Deborah Gray

Attachment therapist Deborah Gray's Attaching in Adoption provides thorough and up to date information, sensitive encouragement, calming support and practical tool for families affected by attachment problems, using vignettes & anecdotes to demonstrate how suggested techniques can work to effect positive change. Here is a book destined to become a 21st century classic in the field of adoption and fostering. Book

 

$24.95
CP001    Adoption Lifebook- A Bridge to Your Child's Beginnings, A Workbook for International Adoptive Families and Waiting Parents by Cindy Probst   "Are you stuck on doing a lifebook? Or scared to start a conversation about adoption with your child? Cindy Probst's fabulous book, Adoption Lifebook: A Bridge to Your Child's Beginnings, will inspire you to find the right path for you and your child. Cindy's honest, compassionate book, with suggestions from the hundreds of parents who have attended her seminars, is a wise guide that enables parents to address adoption issues while strengthening a child's self image."-Shanti Fry, President, Families with Children from China-New England and the Foundation for Chinese Orphanages
  "I am so glad that there is now an easy-to-use guide for families to make their specifically international lifebook. Cindy's approach is warm and supportive, while imparting a wealth of knowledge about adoption and child development. This will be a valuable tool for adoptive families for many years to come."-Joan Clark, Executive Director, ODS Adoption Community of New England Inc.
                                                                                      "Sensitive, thorough, and extremely useful. This workbook is a superb resource for international adoptive families and waiting families. The author's detailing of the process of preparing a lifebook is invaluable to parents in becoming more comfortable and articulate talking to their children about difficult or unknown parts of their adoption story."-Janet Surrey, PhD, Stone Center, Wellesley College
Book paper   13.95
GRN007 Journeys After Adoption- Understanding Lifelong Issues 

by Jane Schooler

This book offers insight into the joy, pain and issues of those affected by adoption as they navigate through the search, reunion and aftermath. Adult .  Book $23.95
RH009 Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Parents Knew  

by Sherrie Eldridge

Filled with powerful insights from children, parents & experts this is an invaluable guide to the complex emotions in the heart of an adopted child. Adult. Book paper

 

$13.95

PER003

Perspectives on a Grafted Tree 

edited by Patricia Johnston

The work of 65 different poets touched by adoption. Beautifully written & illustrated. Great for lifebooks.  Adult.

Book

$14.95

**SALE 5.00**

PGW008  Parenting Your Older Adopted Child- How to Overcome the Unique Challenges and Raise a Happy and Healthy Child ]

by Brenda McCreight

If you've adopted a child older than two years- from the US or abroad- this practical guide will provide you with all the tools and information you'll need to overcome difficulties and develop a healthy, loving relationship with your child. You'll learn step-by-step how to identify your child's unique needs & wounds, create a supportive home environment, & develop the skills needed to ally with your child against each challenge. Book $16.95

PER004

Toddler Adoption-The Weavers Craft  

by Mary Hopkins-Best

Best selling guide to adopting toddlers. Adult

Book paper

$14.95

PER004 Inside Transracial Adoption 

by Gail Steinberg & Beth Hall

If this book could have a 32 word title it would be- How to Get to the Place Where It Feels Almost Fun to Let People Wonder How You and Your Kids Could So Clearly Belong to One Another When You Look So Different! The authors expertly guide the reader through the complexities of transracial adoption. An indispensable resource.  Adult Book $24.95
PP019  A Single Square Picture- A Korean Adoptee's Search for Her Roots 

by Katy Robinson

One day she was Kim Ji-yun growing up in Seoul, Korea. The next day she was Catherine Jeanne Robinson, living in Salt Lake City, Utah. All she had was a single photo to remind her of who she was. 20 years later Katy returned to Seoul to search for her birthfamily. This personal odyssey will resonate with anyone who has ever questioned their place in the world. Adult Book paper $13.95

YY001

Voices from Another Place  

edited by Susan Soon-Keum Cox

Experiences of grown Korean adoptees. This mixture of fiction, essays, artwork and other mediums, demonstrate the importance of acknowledging the roots of transracially adopted children. Adult.

Book

$12.00

YY003

A Passage to the Heart  

edited by Amy Klatzkin

A collection of over 100 writings from Families with Children from China newsletters. A must have for any family at any stage of adopting a child from China.  Adult. This book is sold through this website for The Foundation for Chinese Orphanages. All proceeds go to FCO. www.thefco.org

Book

$22.95

RH020 Wuhu Diary, On Taking My Daughter Back to Her Hometown in China 

by Emily Prager

Exploring the new emotional bond that grows between a Caucasian single mother & her Chinese child, as they try & understand a modern but ancient culture through the irresistible presence of a child. Adult. Book paper $13.00
YY007 Kids Like Me in China 

by YingYing Fry

Since 1992, American families have adopted more than 20,000 babies and children from orphanages all over China. In this first view of China adoption from a child’s perspective, eight-year-old Ying Ying Fry returns to her orphanage to remember what it is like and to write a story so that other adopted children will understand where they came from. Kids Like Me in China combines real-life photos with the forthright observations and complex feelings of an adopted child as she meets caregivers and befriends children in the city where her life began. This book will inspire all adopted children to take charge of their own life stories. This book is sold through this website for The Foundation for Chinese Orphanages. All proceeds go to FCO. www.thefco.org Book $18.00

MULTICULTURAL

HC022 Yell-Oh Girls! Emerging Voices Explore Culture, Identity and Growing Up Asian American 

edited by Vickie Nam

In this ground breaking collection of personal writings, young Asian American girls come together for the first time & engage in a dynamic conversation about the unique challenges they face in their lives. A much needed resource for young Asian American girls. Ages teens & up. Book paper

 

$13.00
RH029 The Accidental Asian 

by Eric Lu

Beyond black & white, native & alien, lies a vast and fertile field of human experience. It is here that Eric Lu, former speechwriter for President Clinton, and noted political commentator, invites us to explore. Liu reflects on his life as a second-generation Chinese American and reveals the shifting frames of ethnic identity. Adult Book paper $11.95

SALE $7.99

 
VHP018 Asian American Dreams- The Emergence of an American People 

by Helen Zia

This book is about the transformation of Asian Americans into a self-identified  racial group that is influencing every aspect of American society, while also examining the rampant stereotyping of Asian Americans and its impact on key issues. Adult Book paper $14.95

SALE $8.99

GH001

All the Colors We Are  

by Katie Kissinger

Great color photos & text tell the story of how we get our skin color & explains melanin. Ages 3-8.

Book paper

$9.95

RH028 We're Different, We're the Same 

by Bobbi Kates

The colorful characters from Sesame Street teach children racial harmony by discovering that while we are different we are alike. Ages 3-7 Book paper $3.25

 

 

FUN STUFF/GIFTS

JL002 Ornament stand Brass ornament stand. Ornament stand $2.95
ODT001    What's Up? South! Map The "What's Up? South!" World Map is an exciting addition to your teaching resources. It challenges basic notions of "up" and "down". This shows Australia on top with the poles reversed because whoever said that North MUST be up?  A startling way to view the world, and a great way to shake people up and help them question their assumptions. View the world with Africa at the top-center flanked by South America and Australia in vibrant colors and seven ALL-NEW comparison panels on the bottom! 36'x56" Laminated in tube SALE ONLY $9.95

was $29.95

ODT002  Peter's Projection Wall Map  The new world map is an equal area map, showing all countries at true size & proportion.  It can help to challenge assumptions and reduce ethnocentric bias. 35"x51" Laminated in tube SALE ONLY $9.95 was $29.95
ODT003

 

Peter's Projection Jigsaw Puzzle Combine fun with geography. Includes guide map & explanation.  20"x32"  Puzzle, 650 pieces, packaged in sturdy tube SALE ONLY $9.95

was $24.95

FOL002 Small Red Dragon 20" version of the Red Dragon puppet. Puppet $19.95DragonRedSm.JPG (114735 bytes)


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